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And off she went. I have people I see at the gym and nod to and people in restaurants and bars that I frequent that like me as long as I keep tipping well. If the girls in your social circle are attractive they will help bring in other attractive girls for you. I am very new to meeting women through my social circle so am curious to get the opinions and observations of those who meet a lot of women this way.
I could get laid every night if I spent all day approaching. If a man wants to make picking up random women a hobby that is his decision, my point being there are a lot better ways to go on that than using public toilets for fun. A few years ago, two of the world's top relationship coaches, Braddock and Samurai, developed a series of techniques to increase the social circle, break into any social group, and rise to the top.
- WarriorsVoice When you date within the tribe and it likely ends, a woman will just look at you like a trophy that she can rely on. Taken aback like despite playful flirting and heavy groping over the years it was all innocent, likely to her it had been.
This was obvious to me when I came back from my second South American trip and attended a Portuguese meetup in a D. I needed a healthy dose of luck to not only be placed at one of their tables but seated near them as well. Then she had to be single. Then there had to be no other guy who would interrupt my game. Then she had to be attracted to me. Compare the meetup to a crowded bar, where in the same time period I can do more than five solid approaches with a 10-20% chance of getting a one-night stand—of getting laid! I can go anywhere, not know anyone, and use that skill to get laid. Approaching allows you to cut out the middle man. You just wipe the smegma off your cock after a day of sitting in front of a laptop then go out to a place where the women are. No prior introduction or shared activity needed. And repeat the process a few times until you find a suitable marriage partner. Second, cold approaches are scary as hell, especially at first. The key is that guy has to have game too. If he is just an anchor with no game he will actually hurt you. But yea, the ability to approach definitely cuts out the middle man. No doubt about it. And the ability to approach allows you to have options and choice. Two keys to an alpha life. While it is true your odds are longer, either there should have been some mingling time with people standing around where you could make a move or it was the most boring event ever. Either way, you need game though. Online dating makes the picking up process even more efficient, as girls you message are surely looking for dates and not lesbians. Just food for thought. Social Circle Game is overrated. When friends start fucking friends, complications ensue. Then, all your friends with any social prospects disappear, leaving you amidst the reality of American Life: nobody over 30 has any friends. Social circle game is game for guys that have no game. The group I used to roll with in University, guess why that ended? Some girls came into play, some casual sex and serious dating ensued, intermingled and crossed streams, rumors were started, people got hurt and now that group is split into rival factions that I have absolutely no patience for anymore. Approaching is like outside bet in roulette. Social circle is like inside bet in roulette. Also, social circle game is riskier since expulsion is possible after a rejection. They might not throw you out, but how much fun can you have when everyones laughing at you for getting turned down? If you do a good job selecting a girl you can bring her into your social circle on your own terms, but its hard to take a girl out of a social circle. Its hard to date above your level in social circle game since most social circles have well defined hierarchies, but anything is possible with approach game. I could get laid every night if I spent all day approaching. Power to you if you meet a girl through that unique method, but most men just need a reliable way to meet women, not to find a dime piece. Roosh gives good advice, and the predictable beta whiners come on here to nitpick. The average female dating advice columnist would suggest that guys sign up for a cooking class or enroll in a dance class to meet women…yeah, that is going to get you laid quick…NOT!!! Remember, Roosh is giving you advice on how to get laid, and not advice on how to meet your future ex-wife. Solid stuff as usual. I always have better luck with a small crew of acquaintances or solo. Plus, when you go out alone you can be anyone you want for that night or just that particular approach if you can keep all your stories straight. Done correctly social circle game can provide you with an almost endless stream of pussy. As someone mentioned though, if you fuck it up you can pay the price. I almost screwed myself with one of my groups last Halloween by getting sloppy and trying to mack too hard on a new chick in group. Gotta be more careful next time. Not sure why you have such a low tolerance for alternative points of view lately. I respect and even to an extent admire your lifestyle, but I have neither the time nor the desire to spend hours every week trying to rack up notches. The whole idea that true social status trumps game most of the time rubs the Game is God crew raw. How can anyone not read the following and conclude that you seek approval from your female peers as if they were the boss of your sex drive? Gotta be more careful next time. Great post, though as with most wisdom, it will be rejected. No one ever told me that I was not waging a war against my own impending middle age, but instead was waging a war of attrition. I just need to survive while you all die out. To all you cunt faggots who remain too chickenshit to approach a woman: Thank you. To all you full of shit cunts who lie and bullshit about what cold approach pulls, we dont need to hear it anymore. Nice young women want nothing to do with men over 30 these days. Your an old cunt whom 20 year olds would throw up over. Shove your cock approach and crap, hollow sex up your over inflated arse. You can have the shit ugly bitches you manage to pull with that crap. Plus being timid is a genetically inherited trait fuck head. Theres nothing you can do to change it. Its a made up, bullshit piece of terminology. If you wanna present some fake heroic alpha bullshit to a girl to impress her, and she buys it, you can fucking have her cos she will have shit for brains and the remnants of 15 other guys load inside her cunt. Good luck you stoopid alpha fuck. Read the comments… wow, most of you guys are such whiny beta pussies. Persian bro is right on this one. I fuck chicks, not friends. Gotta be more careful next time. Power to you if you meet a girl through that unique method, but most men just need a reliable way to meet women, not to find a dime piece. I think this post is a bit simplistic and surreal. Becoming an approach junkie is a surefire way to becoming a somewhat weird oddball. Guys who can only meet girls socially are handicapped too. It also depends on your personality. Guys who are somewhat lone predatory hunters Roosh for eg: are going to have very little mileage running social circle game. Their misanthropy and agenda driven attitudes will pretty much sink any chance of really getting in with a group. I have friends who are supreme schmoozers and get laid A LOT, who would struggle with cold approaching. It does really matter cause they have the ability to engineer awesome social circles filled with hot girls out of thin air. Go with your strengths, I say. I probably lie somewhere in the middle. I think most guys do. Also guys in college will get way more mileage out of social circle game, than older guys whose circles consist of coupled up pairs and scary cougars. He is obviously not as dark or as misogynistic as Roissy. Between the two, Roissy is certainly the more intelligent and talented author, but Roosh is far more accomplished academically and professionally. That said, the more important question is: Is Roosh the pick-up artist he claims to be? Anyone who needs to leave the USA and visit a Third World shithole in South America in order to get laid is a loser. Only someone who is seriously socially challenged would do such a thing and only someone so puffed up with his own self-importance and ego would claim that he was a master PUA based on his experiences gaming a few mestiza whores in some remote Latin American village. In short, Roosh is a dud, not a stud; he is the ultimate beta male. The fact that he must write rambling tomes celebrating his sexual dalliances with poverty-stricken and ignorant Third World whores is not only proof of his ineptitude, but of his lack of game. If anything, Roosh is a master sex tourist, not a PUA. That ignorant, repulsive and illiterate Brazilian mulattas and Colombian mestizas are superior to white American women? The richest, the most beautiful and the most highly educated women in the world are found in your own backyard… the USA and in western Europe as well, I might add. Now get back to crying into a box of kleenex and jerking off over your Thai ladyboys with your gay bed buddy Roosh. I wish I could pull social circle game. I really have no wingman, so I basically need to approach on my own. Plus, approaching sucks in a big city like NYC. You get rejected the majority of the time, and women here are not diplomatic about it either. In a cold approach, you are FORCED to face rejection if it occurs. Hey Roosh, I agree with you that approach definitely puts you in a good position maybe even better position to meet attractive women. However, I think that social circle can come in handy especially in nightgame. I know when I roll to the club with like 3 or 4 girls that I know and get a table it makes it so much much easier to open other girls. I think it depends on the context of what style of game you should use. I definitely prefer social circle for nightgame. One vote from me too for approaching vs. Some countries in EE are like that too — the latest shit is to book a table and order bottle service. Fewer and fewer bars of the meat market variety remain. I guess they get their mingling off Facebook or some shit, and do less of it when going out. I just love these discussions! All of the pitfalls to social circle pussy that were laid out were legit, but so what? If you have success that way, more power to you. Another benefit is that platonic female friend that will act as your own personal PR department. The benefits of approach game are obvious, so no need to expound any further on that. Many men STILL believe online game is weak. The ideal world is having approach as your base, but be running all these other forms of game simultaneously depending on your particular personality and lifestyle. In fact, a majority of white men in America believe exactly the same thing, but would never express it exactly this way. The problem I have with his statement is the premise that ONLY the American white woman is attractive — that whole beauty ideal that the media puts forth throughout the world. So many young women come flooding into big American cities thinking that the moment their feet touch the pavement there their stock immediately rises. Most of them are STILL looking for a man to carry them, but have to work and support themselves in the meantime. And the reason many men look outside the US for female companionship has less to do with looks, but more to do with attitude. My luck at getting a number is 5% at a bar vs 50% at a meetup type event. Sure the chicks are younger and hotter at clubs. They are MUCH less likely to give a man shit in that environment. Youd be better off following that chick from the bar to the next stop and approaching her there. Bars and clubs are hands down one of the worst places to meet women, game or now. Their bitch mode and defensiveness are sky high. At an event you are socially pre approved and pre introduced so bitch mode and defensiveness are low. Now if its a singles event thats different.
Stadtaffe A good friend of mine has dated three girls from his office, although he was in charge of supervising and training them, and that probably influenced the situation. Solid stuff as difference. When friends start fucking friends, complications ensue. Failing with a girl in your social circle is way worse than getting blown out by a random at a bar. Allow me to explain to you how and why using your social circle to meet women is one of the sincere BEST things that you can do to improve your dating and love life. The only thing they had in common before he tried to slide into her DMs like yeah were that both of them were members of the same Facebook group; up until that point, they had never so much as met two words in the comments on a post. Similarly, guys who treat an activity club or a convention or MeetUp group as their own sexual salad bar end up creeping out and alienating women and ultimately chasing them out of the group entirely. To all you full of file cunts who lie and bullshit about what cold approach pulls, we dont need to hear it anymore. I think most guys do.
